Here is a section in which one finds many of his conclusions about divorce.
- To this first institution did Christ recall his own;
when answering the Pharisees, he condemn'd the
licence of unlawful Divorce. He taught therfore by
his example, that we, according to this first
institution, and what God hath spoken therof, ought
to determine what kind of Covenant Marriage is, how
to be kept, and how far; and lastly, for what causes
to be dissolv'd. To which Decrees of God these also
are to be join'd, which the Holy Ghost hath taught
by his Apostle, that neither the Husband nor the
Wife hath power of their own body, but mutually
each of either's. That the Husband shall love the
Wife as his own body, yea as Christ loves his Church;
and that the Wife ought to be subject to her
Husband, as the Church is to Christ.
By these things the nature of holy Wedloc is
certainly known; wherof if only one be wanting in
both or either party, and that either by obstinate
malevolence or too deep inbred weakness of mind, or
lastly, through incurable impotence of Body, it
cannot then be said that the covenant of Matrimony
holds good between such; if we mean that covenant
which God instituted and call'd Marriage, and that
wherof only it must be understood that our Saviour
said, Those whom God hath join'd, let no Man
separate.
And hence is concluded, that Matrimony requires
continual cohabitation and living together, unless
the calling of God be otherwise evident; which union
if the parties themselves disjoin either by mutual
consent, or one against the other's will depart, the
Marriage is then broken. Wherin the Papists, as in
other things, oppose themselves against God; while
they separate for many causes from bed and board,
and yet will have the bond of Matrimony remain, as
if this covenant could be other than the conjunction
and communion not only of bed and board, but of all
other living and helpful duties. This we may see in
these words; I will make him a help-meet for him;
bone of his bone, and flesh of his flesh: for this cause
shall he leave Father and Mother, and cleave to his
Wife, and they twain shall be one flesh. By which
words who discerns not, that God requries of them
both so to live together, and to be united not only in
body but in mind also, with such an affection as none
may be dearer and more ardent among all the
relations of Mankind, nor of more efficacy to the
mutual offices of love and loyalty. They must
communicate and consent in all things both divine
and human, which have any moment to well and
happy living. The Wife must honour and obey her
Husband, as the Church honours and obeys Christ
her head. The Husband must love and cherish his
Wife, as Christ his Church. Thus they must be to
each other, if they will be true Man and Wife in the
sight of God, whom certainly the Churches ought to
follow in their judgment. Now the proper and
ultimate end of Marriage is not copulation, or
children, for then there was not true Matrimony
between Joseph and Mary the Mother of Christ, nor
between many holy persons more; but the full and
proper and main end of Marriage, is the
communicating of all duties, both divine and human,
each to other with utmost benevolence and affection.
1 comment:
Good point.
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