One of the authors which she endorses is Ken Sande who writes about the phrase "weaker vessel",
- A third possibility is that the passage is warning husbands to be sensitive to the God-given power imbalance in marriage. By God’s design, husbands have greater authority, and wives have less. If a husband misuses his authority, it can frustrate and embitter his wife. If each of these implications is taken into account, this passage serves to warn a godly husband to value his wife highly, to be realistic about her capabilities and limitations, to guard against misusing his authority, and to will treat her with great tenderness, sensitivity, and respect.
It is true that women cannot compete with men in the Olympics, but women have other strengths. Women are different from men, but not weaker in an absolute sense. If women were really so weak, then some men would not have to waste so much bluster indoctrinating women into their own subordination.
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Women cannot compete in ski jump at Olympics.
http://news.yahoo.com/s/time/20100211/us_time/08599196344700
Here is a case where the WORLD RECORD HOLDER (the current best regardless of gender) cannot even compete.
How wack is that!
God abhors a false balance and differing measures. Pr 11:1
If this is so, then why did He create one in men and women?
He did not. Historically, men have relentlessly undercut women to create this unbalance that God doesn't approve as demonstrated by God incarnate (Jesus) on this earth.
Every valley shall be raised up, every mountain shall be lowered.
God is not the author of such imbalances. Sinful people are.
The whole quote is presumptuous, but this in particular is quite disturbing:
"...serves to warn a godly husband to value his wife highly, to be realistic about her capabilities and limitations, to guard against misusing his authority,..."
What, pray tell, would those limitations be. Are not women equally gifted with men? Are they not equal image bearers? Are they not equal heirs? (Peter says so in the same passage!) Are they not equal custodians of the earth with equal dominion over it? Cerainly Sande must have some ready proof texts that point out these God given limitations. Or maybe he just assumes them as much as he does GOd given male authority.
Do you think that a wife is more vulnerable than a husband to being hurt within marriage?
I do; and I think that is what Peter/God mean when they speak of her as "weaker" and what Paul/God mean when they say:
“but even as the assembly is subject to Christ,
so also [are] the wives to their own husbands in everything.” Eph 5:24
There's no "vice versa" statement about husbands to that-->wives are more affected; husbands have more power to hurt their wives; or to "wilt" their wives, as Firefighter Michael in the movie "Fireproof" put it:
“A woman’s like a rose.
If you treat her right, she’ll bloom.
If you don’t, she’ll wilt.”
It is a kind of "God given power imbalance"
In Eph 5:24 "is subject" is passive indicative which means its the description of a fact not a command for a behavior.
Sande's use of the term "authority" is inappropriate IMO and just muddies the waters. Power is better. His wive IS SUBJECT/vulnerable to him. He best be careful how he uses/misuses that POWER.
God-given power imbalance? is that the conservative politically correct way for saying "oppression"?
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