WILT thou have this Man to thy wedded Husband, to live together after God's ordinance in the holy estate of Matrimony? Wilt thou obey him, and serve him, love, honour, and keep him in sickness and in health; and, forsaking all other, keep thee only unto him, so long as ye both shall live?
The Woman shall answer, I will.This article pretty much sums up the way I view this matter. Here is where I blogged about some sample wedding vows from Bible.org. I was not impressed.
Joel and Damian have written insightful posts on the issue of obeying one's leader, pastor or husband.